Our Loves is a film about October 7th, 2023, which focuses on love and resilience. Although it is a bit sentimental, the film is hard-hitting, emotional and meaningful. I viewed the film at the opening event of the Haifa Film Festival, which is held every year during Succot for the past 42 years and I am thankful to the people at the Gesher Film Fund for providing my husband and myself with invitations to this event. This year, the event gave homage to Avi Nesher as he was presented with a life achievement award.
Avi Nesher is well-known for many films made during his long career – Image of
Victory, Past Lives, Secrets, Turn Left at the End of the World. During
his early years, in the 1970s, he made two films about young people in Israel –
Sing Your Heart Out or The Troupe (הלהקה) and Dizengoff 99.
As part of the homage to him at the film festival, there was a full orchestra
and a group of singers, including Sassi Keshet (who was one of the stars in Sing
Your Heart Out) who sang a medley of songs from these two early
films. The audience loved it!
When called upon to speak, Avi Nesher remembered when he was in his 20s and he directed these first two films. He recalled how shy he had been on the set, and when he called for “action”, Gidi Gov yelled, “what did you say?” just to taunt him!
The new
film, Our Loves, opened at the Toronto Film Festival, just two
weeks earlier. Nesher related that due
to Canadian anti-Israeli sentiment, the Toronto Film Festival takes almost no
Israeli films any longer. But he was
lucky that his film was chosen to be screened as part of this prestigious
festival. The screening was set for Rosh Hashanah, so there weren’t any Jews
from the Toronto community there. But
the 500 plus people in the audience loved the film and gave him a standing
ovation!
At the Haifa
Film Festival screening, the master of ceremonies of the evening was the famous
Israeli actor, Lior Ashkenazi, which seemed so appropriate for the opening of a
major film about October 7th, because Ashkenazi had been the master
of ceremonies for so many of those Saturday night protests in Hostage Square
since October 7th.
The film is
made up of a series of stories about families and couples, and it is quite
beautiful to see how the stories come together at the end. Liri’s father, Shabi, has left her mother and
she is very resentful. Shabi’s story and
his heroism become the central link tying everyone together in the story. Sapir is a young religious woman who attended
the Nova with a girlfriend. There is
Sandy, the Ashkenazi woman, and her Moroccan girlfriend, Milly, who is a cop on
the Ofakim police force. Alfasi is considering leaving Israel to work for his
uncle abroad. There are four young army
recruits, providing a bit of comic relief.
Rita lives on a border kibbutz in the Gaza envelope. Her son, Matan, is
Liri’s boyfriend.
The review
in the Hollywood Reporter criticized the film for being told only from the
Israeli perspective. This is true -- the
film portrays the human stories behind this immense Israeli tragedy. In a completely different style, Nesher’s earlier
film, Image of Victory, was told both from the Israeli and
Egyptian perspective of the 1948 war.
But in this film, that is clearly not intended. In fact, we don’t really
see the human faces of the terrorists who came to perpetrate such terrible
murder and destruction. They are seen
here only as dehumanized masked men.
In the dialogue, once or twice, the film refers to the army’s lack of preparedness on the border, criticizing the government at that time, which is still the same irresponsible government today, three years later. But this is not the focus of the film. Rather, this is a film about Israelis who were unwittingly caught up in the events of October 7th. It tells their stories -- authentic stories about love, hope, heroism, and trauma. The subject matter is extremely compelling and hard-hitting. Highly recommended!
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